Well....
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My issue is not with the whole "passing the torch" thing. I get that, I accept that, and we all knew that was coming given how freakin' long it took for Episode VII to come out (in real-world years, not SW universe years, although they seem pretty close). I'm all about adding to the rich Star Wars universe with new stories, heroes, villains, ships, planets, species, etc. And I have no problem suspending my disbelief where science fiction stories (movies, TV shows, books, games) are concerned.
My issue was with the execution of the movie. For all the reasons I listed above.
And again, I think they missed some golden opportunities to add to the richness of Star Wars. Snoke, for example. "Who cares who he is, he's lame anyway". I disagree--maybe he was, maybe he wasn't, but we never found out. If we're hailing Kylo Ren and Rey as the new "torch carriers" (and I'm totally OK with that), then I'd like to know how Kylo Ren came to be who he is. Leia herself said in TFA that it was Snoke who stole Ren away from them. Why? How? What was the bridge between the "incident" between Luke and Ren (then Ben Solo) that we learned of in TLJ and Ren falling in with Snoke? What was Snoke's connection to the Force? Where was he during the Empire years (because he looked REALLY old)? It seems like they set a lot of those questions up in TFA, and I expected to start seeing some answers in TLJ and whatever Episode IX will be called. Killing Snoke off in TLJ to me seems like either laziness, or lack of creativity. Why introduce him at all if you're just going to kill him off halfway through the second movie with no explanation of who he is or how he came to be what he was?
I'm not defending Snoke as a character; I'm just using that once instance as an example of my disappointment in the movie. Same with Captain Phasma, although I've already covered that.
Ultimately none of this is that big of a deal. I'll continue to play X-Wing and Star Wars Battlefront, and build SW models, and collect cool Star Wars posters, etc, etc, etc. I just think this could have been a better movie, and I think it puts Episode IX on shaky ground.
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